It’s taken me a longgggg time to become comfortable with who I am. I’ve had many trip ups along the way. I will never claim to be perfect; far from it. But I am who I am, and I am trying to accept and embrace the fact that I do NOT fit into the typical norm of Western society.
I am short and curvy with crazy wavy frizzy hair. I’m pansexual (I like people- not just the male/female binary). I am polyamorous (which simply means I love more than one person at a time).
I have a full-time partner, Alan, that I have shared my life with for the past three plus years. He is absolutely amazing. He is monogamous, and is trying to navigate within my poly world. It is difficult for him and I appreciate the fuck out of him trying to handle a relationship with me and my veryyy different outlook on love and relationships. Communication is key with us: sometimes the conversations are hard, but we make it work so that we can make our love and our partnership long lasting. Our love is a fire that burns bright and fierce.
I unfortunately don’t have a girlfriend. I haven’t had a girlfriend in forever. So sad. And it’s been even more forever since I’ve kissed a girl… so very very sad. I miss having a sweet girl to cuddle up with and kiss and cuddle and romp and yeah… all the girly things.
I am creative and flighty, devoted and emotional. I give all of myself to the people that I love and care about. And if I call you a true friend, and if I say that I love you, it means something more than just a line of words. There is meaning behind it, there is power behind it.
Quite simply, there is so much more to me than what others see on the surface. If you have a question, please ask me. I am a very open and honest person and I’m not squeemish (except around spiders). So just ask!!