I wanted to give my readers the chance to ask whatever they want, and I’ll answer as honestly as I can. I’ll put each question and its answer into this post so that others won’t have to go down to all the comments.
I look forward to seeing what you guys come up with! 🙂
In the next day or so I’ll be writing a commonly asked questions and misconceptions page.
And I’m trying to get some guest writers, including posts from Scot and Alan giving their sides of the story.
Much love, Polyleigh
Yay! I’m excited for these questions and answers. Way to make your blog interactive, Polyleigh
What does your family think of your lifestyle? Who do you bring home for Christmas?
My mom knows about Alan, and she met him once (before she knew he was my bf). She’s worried that I’ll f** up my marriage with Scot. But she says she loves me regardless. My sister I think knows, but I just don’t talk to her about it because she doesn’t approve for religious reasons. I haven’t told anyone else in my family. But my friends and many of my co-workers know and support my decision. They all love both Scot and Alan.
Neither of them have told their respective families bc they are incredibly conservative and religious.
Unfortunately as of right now, only Scot goes to holiday and family functions with me. I think it helps him still feel like the primary partner. But I know that it sometimes bothers Alan that he can’t/isn’t known to my family. Alan’s family knows we’re dating, but doesn’t know I’m married.
Alan will be present when I graduate, so that’s going to be a somewhat interesting and awkward situation. I hate having to introduce him as “our friend.” I want to proudly hold both their hands and hug and kiss them on such a momentous moment in my life. I’ll find a way, but I hate having to be secretive. It blows and breaks both of our hearts.